Exchange Exemplar: The (Awful) Power Of Secrets

Mar 9, 2017

We don't want everyone to know everything about us. 

Credit Kim Boek, Seoul, South Korea, CC BY 2.0,

But that's just privacy; secrets are another matter entirely.  And research shows that keeping secrets can damage relationships, wounding both keeper and finder of the secret. 

Jane Isay, who comes from a family of psychologists and psychiatrists, wrote about the issues in her book Secrets and Lies

She joined us in early 2014 for an interview, which we replay here.